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கொடிவழி / குடும்ப மரம் (kodivazhi Maram)
Tamil genealogy article
சிங்கப்பூர் தமிழர்கள் பயன்படும் உறவுப் பெயர்கள் + official name formats, privacy-first sharing, and family tree consistency tips.

Tamil Ancestry Research | Family Tree Guide
Singapore-ல sharing and privacy rules strict. அதனால family tree build பண்ணும்போது ‘minimum details, maximum clarity’ தான் best.
சிங்கப்பூரில் Tamil families-க்கு kinship terms Tamil-ல தான் இருக்கும். ஆனால் family tree record பண்ணும்போது practical constraints:
- official full-name format consistency
- privacy-first sharing expectations
- multiple languages in household
இதையெல்லாம் handle பண்ண ஒரு clean strategy கீழே.
1. Comprehensive Singapore Tamil Kinship Terms Table
| Tamil Term | English Equivalent | Side | Context | Singapore Specific Notes | |------------|-------------------|------|---------|--------------------------| | அப்பா / தந்தை | Father | - | Direct parent | Used commonly in Singapore | | அம்மா / தாய் | Mother | - | Direct parent | Used commonly in Singapore | | அண்ணன் | Elder Brother | - | Same generation, elder sibling | Used commonly in Singapore | | தம்பி | Younger Brother | - | Same generation, younger sibling | Used commonly in Singapore | | அக்கா | Elder Sister | - | Same generation, elder sibling | Used commonly in Singapore | | தங்கை | Younger Sister | - | Same generation, younger sibling | Used commonly in Singapore | | மகன் | Son | - | Direct child | Used commonly in Singapore | | மகள் | Daughter | - | Direct child | Used commonly in Singapore | | தாத்தா | Grandfather (Paternal/Maternal) | - | Father's/Mother's father | Called Appapa in some Singapore families | | பாட்டி | Grandmother (Paternal/Maternal) | - | Father's/Mother's mother | Called Ammachi in some Singapore families | | பெரியப்பா | Father's Elder Brother | Father's side | Father's elder brother | Critical distinction in Singapore families | | சித்தப்பா | Father's Younger Brother | Father's side | Father's younger brother | Critical distinction in Singapore families | | அத்தை | Father's Sister | Father's side | Father's sister | Used in Singapore | | அத்திம்பர் | Father's Sister's Husband | Father's side | Father's sister's husband | Used in Singapore | | மாமா | Mother's Brother | Mother's side | Mother's brother | Very important in Singapore culture | | பெரியம்மா | Mother's Elder Sister | Mother's side | Mother's elder sister | Used in Singapore | | சித்தி / சின்னம்மா | Mother's Younger Sister | Mother's side | Mother's younger sister | Used in Singapore | | மாமி | Mother's Brother's Wife | Mother's side | Mother's brother's wife | Used in Singapore |
2. Singapore Tamil Community Background
2.1 Historical Migration Waves
- 1820s-1950s: Early colonial migration (laborers, traders, civil servants)
- 1950s-1980s: Post-independence settlement
- 1980s-2000s: Professional migration
- 2000s-present: Skilled worker and family reunification
2.2 Community Composition
- Sri Lankan Tamils: Significant population from Jaffna and Eastern Province
- Indian Tamils: From Tamil Nadu, Kerala, and other South Indian states
- Malaysian Tamils: Families from across the causeway
- Singapore-born Tamils: Third/fourth generation with unique cultural adaptations
2.3 Language and Cultural Dynamics
- Multilingual households: Tamil, English, Mandarin, Malay
- Cultural preservation: Strong emphasis on maintaining Tamil traditions
- Modern adaptations: Blending traditional and contemporary practices
3. Core family members (முதன்மை உறவுகள்) - Singapore Specific
- அப்பா / தந்தை: Father (used across all Singapore Tamil communities)
- அம்மா / தாய்: Mother (used across all Singapore Tamil communities)
- அண்ணன்: Elder Brother (used across all Singapore Tamil communities)
- தம்பி: Younger Brother (used across all Singapore Tamil communities)
- அக்கா: Elder Sister (used across all Singapore Tamil communities)
- தங்கை: Younger Sister (used across all Singapore Tamil communities)
- மகன் / மகள்: Son/Daughter (used across all Singapore Tamil communities)
4. Paternal vs maternal side terms (keep them distinct) - Singapore Context
4.1 Father side (தந்தை வழி) - Singapore Specific
- தாத்தா / அப்பப்பா / Appappa: Grandfather (varies by family background)
- பாட்டி / அப்பம்மா / Ammachi: Grandmother (varies by family background)
- பெரியப்பா: Father's Elder Brother (maintain this distinction crucial in Singapore)
- சித்தப்பா: Father's Younger Brother (maintain this distinction crucial in Singapore)
- அத்தை: Father's Sister (used across all Singapore Tamil communities)
- அத்திம்பர்: Father's Sister's Husband (used across all Singapore Tamil communities)
Singapore families often maintain these distinctions more strictly due to the multicultural context and the need for precise identification.
4.2 Mother side (தாய் வழி) - Singapore Specific
- மாமா: Mother's Brother (especially important in Singapore Tamil culture)
- பெரியம்மா / சித்தி / Siththi: Mother's Elder/Younger Sister (usage varies)
- மாமி: Mother's Brother's Wife (used across all Singapore Tamil communities)
5. Singapore context – name format consistency (comprehensive rules)
5.1 Common Singapore Tamil Surnames
- Sri Lankan Tamil surnames: Sinnathamby, Nadesan, Pathmanathan, Yogeswaran, Thangarajah
- Indian Tamil surnames: Ramasamy, Balasubramaniam, Subramaniam, Rajendran
- Anglicized forms: Common due to English education system
5.2 NRIC (National Registration Identity Card) Impact on Names
Singapore NRIC system has specific formats:
- Citizens: 9-character alphanumeric code with name format
- Permanent Residents: Different format
- Name restrictions: Limited characters allowed in official documents
- Name changes: Strict regulations on legal name changes
5.3 Multiple Spelling Variations in Singapore Context
ஒரே நபர் docs-ல:
- Thangavel / Tangavel / Thanga Vel / T. G. Vel / Thangavelu: Same person, different spellings
- Murugan / M. Murugan / Murugan a/l Subramaniam: NRIC format variations
- initials swapped: S. Nadesan → Nadesan S. → N. S. in different documents
6. Singapore-specific Document Systems
6.1 Primary Identity Documents
- Birth Certificate: Original name registration
- NRIC (National Registration Identity Card): Primary identity document
- Driving License: Secondary identity document
- Passport: International travel document
6.2 Educational Documents
- PSLE, GCE O/A Level certificates: Local education system
- University degrees: Local and international
- Professional certificates: Professional body certifications
6.3 Religious/Marriage Documents
- Hindu marriage certificates: Temple registrations
- Civil marriage certificates: Registry of Marriages
- Religious conversion certificates: If applicable
7. Singapore-specific Naming Conventions
7.1 Multilingual Influence
- English education: Many families use English names alongside Tamil names
- Initials usage: Common to use father's name initial (e.g., R. Thangavel)
- Middle name adoption: Some families adopt English middle names
7.2 Religious Name Variations
- Hindu names: Traditional Tamil names with Sanskrit influence
- Christian names: Tamil names combined with Christian names
- Muslim names: Tamil names with Islamic names (for Tamil Muslims)
7.3 HDB Context (Housing Development Board)
- Estate living: Families often identified by HDB flat location
- Block and unit numbers: Important for family location tracking
- Neighborhood connections: Community ties within estates
8. Singapore Privacy Laws and Family Tree Documentation
8.1 Personal Data Protection Act (PDPA) 2012
- Consent requirements: For collecting, using, and disclosing personal data
- Purpose limitations: Data must be collected for legitimate purposes
- Protection measures: Safeguards for personal data
8.2 Official Guidelines for Personal Information
- NRIC number sensitivity: Never share full NRIC numbers publicly
- Address privacy: Be cautious with specific address information
- Contact information: Limit sharing of phone numbers and email addresses
9. Singapore Tamil Wedding Customs and Family Trees
9.1 Traditional Practices in Singapore Context
- வாழை மரம் நடுதல்: Traditional ceremony connecting families
- கொடியேற்றம்: Flag raising ceremony
- மாப்பிள்ளை வீட்டார் / மாப்பிள்ளை வீட்டார்: Clear distinction maintained
- குலதெய்வம்: Family deity connections (varies by community)
9.2 Impact on Family Trees
Singapore Tamil weddings:
- Create documented connections between families
- Generate verifiable records in temple/registry records
- Include detailed family information in wedding invitations
- Often held in community centers with guest lists
10. Practical Record Strategy for Singapore Context
10.1 Record like this (enhanced approach):
- Tamil call-name: What family uses at home
- Official name: As in NRIC/birth certificate
- English name: If different from official name
- Birth year (YYYY): Essential for identification
- HDB estate/neighbourhood: For location context (private notes only)
- Religion: Important for marriage records
10.2 Key principle: public view = minimal, private notes = richer
- Public sharing: Basic relationship terms and years
- Private documentation: Complete names, addresses, and detailed notes
- Family sharing: Moderate level of detail with trusted relatives
11. Sharing checklist (Singapore-specific privacy-first)
11.1 Public share / social sharing:
- Living people: Year only (not full DOB)
- Exact addresses: Do not include (especially HDB block/unit numbers)
- NRIC numbers: Never include
- Phone numbers: Do not include
- Email addresses: Do not include
11.2 Family tree-க்கு minimum information needed:
- Relationship clarity: Tamil terms for precision
- Year and location: For identification
- Religious/cultural context: Important for Singapore families
12. Quick template (comprehensive Singapore-friendly)
ஒவ்வொருத்தருக்கும் இந்த fields capture பண்ணினா tree accurate ஆகும்:
- பெயர் (Tamil):
- Official name (English): (as in NRIC/birth certificate)
- English name (if different):
- பிறந்த ஆண்டு:
- இறந்த ஆண்டு (இருந்தால்):
- HDB Estate/Neighbourhood: (private notes only)
- உறவு: (பெரியப்பா/சித்தப்பா/மாமா…)
- தந்தை/தாய் பெயர்:
- மனைவி/கணவன்:
- குழந்தைகள்:
- Religion/Ethnicity: (Sri Lankan Tamil, Indian Tamil, Singapore-born)
- NRIC reference: (Last 4 digits only, private notes)
- notes: (name variants, marriage info, temple connections, education)
13. Singapore Tamil Genealogy Resources
13.1 Government Resources
- National Registration Identity Card (NRIC): Primary identity document
- Registry of Births & Deaths: Birth/death records
- Registry of Marriages: Marriage records
- HDB records: For housing history
13.2 Community and Religious Resources
- Hindu temples: Sri Mariamman Temple, Sri Veeramakaliamman Temple - marriage records
- Christian churches: Tamil Methodist churches, etc.
- Tamil schools: Anglo-Chinese School (Tamil), Xinmin Secondary (Tamil)
- Tamil Sangam: Singapore Federation of Temple Arts
- Chettiars association: For specific communities
13.3 Modern Resources
- Online genealogy platforms: MyHeritage, Ancestry, etc.
- Community Facebook groups: Singapore Tamil genealogy groups
- National Archives of Singapore: Historical records
- Singapore Memory Project: Digital heritage collection
Additional Resources
Singapore diaspora trees-ல success formula:
- Relationship terms correct: Maintain Tamil specificity
- Name format consistent: Use official documents as reference
- Privacy-first sharing: Protect living people's information
- Community verification: Cross-reference with temple/school records
- Historical context: Understand migration waves and settlement patterns
- Legal compliance: Follow PDPA guidelines for personal data
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